Division

The process of separation typically dur to or causing tension. All I can think about is how my ex-husband instituted a parenting style where he thought it was best practice to divide and conquer. It seemed logical at the time because my first pregnancy was fraternal twins and for our own sanity we spent the first 6 months on a shift schedule. Like two passing ships in the night we divided by sleep deprivation and the stress of newbie parenthood. Making any kind of decision meant arguing. Not the venting kind but the blaming kind.